This is an intersting topic. From a gay man's POV, I agreed with Harvey that being a bisexual means having more options to choose from. But as what you said, it's not as easy as it seems because bisexuals are often accused with having a closeted same sex activity while engaging in heterosexual r/ship. Therefore, it often creates conflicts and mistrusts between lovers/partners.
I personally believe that there's no clear line between what kinda sexes a bisexual would engage in r/ship because, just like heterosexuals & homosexuals, it's all about the person whom one attracts to, and not the sex itself. It's terrible to accuse a bisexual as someone who has the tendency to have more sex than the rest of the community because of their capability of engaging in both hetero & homosexual activities.
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Well, not much that we can say except to nod along :) Already takes a while for people to accept homosexuality - what more with bisexuality?
Paul
Now now.
*pat pat
hoohoo. i just find it personally reprehensible to be hypocritical, paul. unless you're doing it on purpose. then it's amusing.
aiya. not sad la, defiant. just annoyed.
If I can choose between being gay and bisexual, I'd choose bisexual, so much more choices.
ahha bisexual is good.. to have choices.. hahaa.. damn.. i dun like girls how? i will puke to see a girl's vaginal uhmnn..
well, yes harvey. but see, just because i can choose doesn't mean the other party will choose me. that's the real problem.
heheh. no problem for me either way, lawrence.
as long as my cock gets sucked(nicely), bi or homo, none bothers me.
This is an intersting topic. From a gay man's POV, I agreed with Harvey that being a bisexual means having more options to choose from. But as what you said, it's not as easy as it seems because bisexuals are often accused with having a closeted same sex activity while engaging in heterosexual r/ship. Therefore, it often creates conflicts and mistrusts between lovers/partners.
I personally believe that there's no clear line between what kinda sexes a bisexual would engage in r/ship because, just like heterosexuals & homosexuals, it's all about the person whom one attracts to, and not the sex itself. It's terrible to accuse a bisexual as someone who has the tendency to have more sex than the rest of the community because of their capability of engaging in both hetero & homosexual activities.
as long as the boot, or mouth, fits, eh shine?
something like that, mikey. i think.
Honestly, I used to think that bisexuals are ppl who can't decide and just wanna play on both teams.
But now, I am enlightened *shining light on me*
I realised that we're all humans too. You're right when you said that having the choice doesn't mean you'll exercise it.
Dating a bisexual isn't any riskier than straights or gays. Anyone, regardless of sexual orientation, can leave us anytime.
Anyway, I am dating a bisexual.
*hugs*
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